Sunday, June 1, 2014


Our oldest granddaughter Jordan graduated from high school yesterday. Since she had been homeschooled, her graduation was held at the church that my son's family is involved in. Jordan made a speech, the event was videotaped, a great feast was had by all, and she is now preparing for the next step in her life: going to YWAM's Discipleship Training School in Hawaii, and then (we think) college at University of the Nations, also connected with YWAM (Youth With a Mission - a worldwide parachurch evangelistic organization).

That's Jordan in a dress that I sewed by hand close to 40 years ago when I was reading the Little House books to her dad and uncle (they were about 6 and 4 years old at the time).

Jordan's cousin Brenna, the oldest daughter of our older son, will be graduating from (public) junior high school next week, and her younger brother Ethan will be graduating from 6th grade at the Christian elementary school where their mom teaches art and all 3 of her children have attended. How quickly it all goes! How soon they'll be adults!

This is lovely Brenna with her equally lovely mother Rhonda.

And here's the Big E, our star basketball/softball/soccer player.

And in the same vein, Padre Sergio, the priest who received us into the Catholic church, came to Todos Santos today to say good-bye to the people of this parish where he labored for many years. He is finally getting his long-held wish and transferring to the diocesis of Los Angeles (California, USA). Although he and his siblings grew up in Guadalajara, most of them now live in and around LA, and he has been trying for years to transfer up there. It's not easy to change from one diocese to another, and even more so when it means a change of country as well.

We never know how long we have to enjoy the people who are part of our lives today, or the details of our lives that make our hearts full. Circumstances change and people move on, and who knows when we'll be together again? It has been too many years since I've been at the great gathering of my family members that happens every July 4th on a lake in Wisconsin. It has been too many years since all of my husband's family have gotten together, although from the time we were married until the time our boys were in junior high we had a huge family Christmas party every year. Then the parents and aunts and uncles either died or moved away and our generation didn't pick up the ball. I guess "you don't know what you have 'til it's gone", as Joni Mitchell sang.

So "while it is called today", let us rejoice in the amazing gifts of God that surround us - the people, the plants, the birdsongs, the ocean and mountains, the dogs/cats/horses/goats/chickens, and all the small moments that fill our days. How precious every moment of life is!


  1. true that partings can come quickly...and your post is filled with basically happy transitions, graduations of children launching and your priest launching onward...and yet the loss is palpable...and your response to it is so right...rejoice.
    I wandered over here from my friend's blog,GJ always has nice people reading her missives...and I am glad I did.

  2. Thanks for stopping by, Jeanette. You're right - GJ's blog is really special!

  3. What deeply beautiful musings...

    What a blessing grandmotherhood is! Congratulations to your "littles' on their milestones!

  4. Your grandchildren are obviously people to be proud of - you must be so thankful!

    And I really feel what you are saying about the dear people that we mustn't take for granted. For a decade or two it seemed that every one of my best friends moved away. Once one of them moved back. :-) It's bittersweet, having such beloved friends and family, because we so often have to say good-bye, and almost always don't see them as often as we want. This earthly life is over in a flash, it turns out.

  5. I appreciate the relatively gently ways that God has of reminding us of our transitory state by using the sharp pangs of love.


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